Kissing Tips for Beginners
Here are some important kissing tips:
Be patient. There is no hurry for a kiss, especially the first kiss. Wait until the mood is right. Everyone prefers the romantic kiss - at a romantic movie, after or during an on-screen kiss, during an intimate conversation...
Have fresh breath. Floss and brush your teeth at least twice daily. During the day you should chew gum, or use breath mints or mouthwash. Don't forget the breath freshener especially if you plan to kiss with your partner after eating. And of course, make sure you don’t have something stuck in your teeth.
Make sure that your lips are well moisturized and not chapped. Apply lip balm frequently and keep your lips soft.
Use your hands. You should always use your hands to make the kiss more romantic. Embrace your partner, cup their face very gently in your hands. Run your hands through their hair. This is very stimulating. Whatever you do, don't just let your hands hang at your sides.
Breathe. When you’re kissing for an extended period, it is easy to forget to breathe. Don't hold your breath. It is awkward when you have to pull away gasping for air. Breathe through your nose, and keep a normal rhythm.
Here's what you should not do:
- Don't approach with a mouth wide open
- Don't stick out your tongue
- Don’t force your tongue down your partner's throat
- Don't bite – or you could easily hurt your partner
- Don't force anything. If someone indicates that they don’t want to be kissed, don’t persist.
- Don't make groaning noises
- Don't make an awkward silence after the kiss - say something romantic
Good kissing requires practice. You'll get better as you do it more. The more practice you have with one person, the more comfortable you will feel kissing him or her, and you'll also develop a style that suits both you and your partner.
More kissing tips: learn how to french kiss.
Rebuilding Your Life After Divorce
Thousands of people have gone through divorce, so you are not the only one. Divorce is not the end of your life, it is just the end of a marriage. You have other things that you need to focus on, rather than you marriage. If you have children for example, this is a great time to start focusing on them more.
Many people will find that it is hard to let go of their feelings during a divorce. They become angry and feel like they will lose control at any moment. Don't forget that there are thousands of people who feel this way. What you need to do is to seek therapy to help you control your temper and feelings of rage. This way you'll learn how to get along with your ex partner for the sake of the children.
After divorce, you may find that your self-esteem is completely gone. The most important step for rebuilding your esteem after divorce is to let go. You must place the past in the past and start to think about how you can improve the way you feel about yourself.
Never beat yourself down. It is not your fault, it's not anyone's fault, perhaps you just had a bad relationship. Don't think about the past – think about the future. Learn to use positive words to describe your personality (like smart, attractive, aspirational, etc). You image of yourself will effect your life very much. Sometimes it's better to be on your own and follow your own path, rather than following someone else. Your self-esteem will rise because you are an independent person.
One the most important lessons that you will learn from divorce is you are much stronger than you think. Going though all that you have, you will become a stronger individual. Now, you will be able to handle situations that you usually wouldn't think you could handle. Divorce definitely makes you stronger.
By Pax Shumway. Find more tips here: Relationship Trouble
MY FIRST LOVE – A short Story
MY FIRST LOVE – A short Story
I don't believe in love with physical relationship. May be, in the future, I may learn to love even without physique involved. But as of now, being 18 year old boy, what my eyes see as attractive, I love; what my ears find fascinating and rocking to hear, I love; ultimately, the secret of all, what is pleasant and smooth to smell and touch, I love most.
Sorry, I won't make any pretension. I love a girl for above reasons. For me a person is to be physically experienced to be loved. I love many girls, for the same reason. For love, according to me are the beauty, charm, sexual excitement and above all, physico-physic fulfillment.
The first thing I do on when I go to college in the morning is to see girls. I stand below the mango tree and under its shades and girls flock to me like bees towards a flower. Yes, not only I like to love girls, I like them attracted towards my charm, the youthful vigor, handsome look, rich apparels, and above all lovable sweet demeanor. I have all the above, I think, more than anybody in my college, which is one of the prestigious in my town and studied by students coming from affluent and rich families.
I, born in a millionaire’s family, being raised in all moulds and shades of affluence, am, I think, fully entitled to lead a life of ease and fun. Money, major ingredient in having fun is of little concern to me as my pocket money amounts to thousands of Dollors per month.
Prologue has become too long, warns my English teacher. But this piece is also a part of my drive to get more and more fun out of my life, since, after all, it is my, only my life. The funniest part of my engagements all through the day is chatting with girls and also with fellow guys. Not so funniest, but highly enjoyable is kissing my most beloved of all, Rose, the girl, not only pettiest but sexiest of all. Is kissing not funny? It fills with supreme kind of pleasure with a dash of nervousness. But talking has none of that. Yes, I became nervous when I am invited by Rose to kiss the other day. It was our first kiss. She was an angel for me; I heard her muttering “God”, in exaltation.
The period of my maiden kiss was not long. But it is not something to be abandoned as unworthy. Though the kiss was short, lasted for only few seconds, it was the sweetest period of my life, sweet, not only physically but also mentally and emotionally. I posted this message in my private website – MY MAIDEN KISS, SWEETER THAN THE NECTAR.
No longer, I dress immaculately to attract girls but to impress upon one girl. No longer, I spend my money, time and youth in pursuit of glee to be a chosen one for girls but to be nearer, nearer, to be one exactly, with one and only girl called Rose. With every heart beat, one name arises in my mind. That is Rose. With every action and though, the form and the name of my sweetheart creeps in from somewhere.
No longer is Rose someone to be seen as in the case of other girls. She is the one who shared my kissing, probably; she would share my bed also. In the meantime, we enjoyed kissing each other at least twice a day, one at the time of meeting and the other, at the time of separation.
The day, when I invited her for a dance followed by a dinner in a five star hotel was not far from that day of kissing. I took the best of cars, my father had, drove Rose to a plush five star Hotel. I, attired in my best of suites, danced for more than an over, with my girlfriend until we both agreed we were ready share bed also. Rose, aged 17, she promised, was ready to take risk, which few of her age would take in India. I am overwhelmed by her beauty, charm, loveliness and what not, led her to a luxurious room after a lavish dinner under candle light.
Rose was splendid on the bed but we did not have any sex nor was it necessary. We talked about our friends, our life, and our dress and makeup styles, apparels starting from shoes to headgears. We shared her fears and anxieties, cut jokes at each other expense. Finally, when the night brakes into day, I embraced her, kissed her, cajoled her, dipped my little finger into her bra and by doing so, had some fun. But we did not have sex yet we become a couple of love birds.
Yes, life can be fun without physique attached to it but when, flesh follows the mind, there is real love. But if flesh rules over the mind, there is a devil, not love, for what is the acting of flesh with in the light of morality is what is called LOVE.